When users or groups are updated :
- Check that keys are properly updated on sops secrets;
- Check that no dangling symlinks are left behind in sops secrets.
And when an user is removed from the clan, check that it is removed from
the groups it belonged to.
This doesn't check this works for vars explicitly, since they share the
same logic, see `secret_paths.extend(list_vars_secrets(flake_dir))` in
commit 7466445653.
Those improvements allow us to validate that #2659 is indeed fixed, and
tell us that we need to make the same kind of fixes for machines and
groups. For groups this is straightforward, and for machines, when one
is deleted, I wanna discuss first whether we want to delete all its
secrets as well.